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15 Ways to recover from a Traumatising Break-up

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2.Openly Discuss Your Feelings

Talking about your feelings related to the break-up is an equally powerful tool to 
manage them. As we talk to supportive friends and family members, we can come to some new understandings and relieve some of our pain. 

Holding all of these negative feelings in just doesn’t work, although there may be times when this is necessary, such 
as in public settings, at work, or in class. As we talk to others, we usually discover 
that our feelings are normal and that others have survived these feelings. 

Above all else, don’t isolate yourself or withdraw from those people who can give you support.

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3. Write Out Your Thoughts and Feelings

In addition to talking to others, it can be very helpful to journal your thoughts and 
feelings related to the break-up. People are not always available when you need to get 
out your feelings and some feelings or thoughts may be too private to feel comfortable sharing with others. 

The act of writing your feelings out can be very freeing and can often give you a different perspective about them.

4. Understand That Break-ups Are Often 

An Inevitable Part Of Dating Remember that many of our dating relationships will end up in a break-up. 

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This is the very nature of dating. Until we find our best match, we are going to be moving in and out of relationships, so expect it. This way, we won’t feel so devastated when it does happen. 

Relationships usually end for some good reasons and they should end if we want to find our most suitable partner. Of course, no match will be perfect and we have to decide how long to keep looking and what we can live with. 
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Finding a complementary partner is more than about love and therefore, it is going to likely take many dating relationships to find.

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5. Don’t Personalize The Loss

It is natural after a break-up to blame yourself, but try not to personalize the loss for 
too long. Much of the pain of a break-up comes from seeing the loss as your fault and regretting the choices you made while in the relationship. This process of self-blame can go on endlessly if you let it.


It is far more helpful to see the ending as a result of conflicting needs and 
incompatibilities that are no one’s fault. Each person in a relationship is trying to get their own needs met and some couples are able to help fulfill each other’s needs and others are not. 

One of the biggest issues is being able to communicate and negotiate those needs. It’s not easy to learn, so don’t blame yourself and try not to blame your 
ex. He or she is likely also doing the best they can, given their personalities and life 
history. No one goes into a relationship with the goal of making it fail, or hurting the other person.

6. Prioritize Basic Self-Care

Self-care refers to ensuring that your basic needs are being met, despite the fact that 
you may be feeling upset and depressed due to the break-up. You may not feel like 
eating but do it anyways, and try to make some healthy choices in what you eat. Give yourself ample time to sleep, particularly since this may be difficult for you. 


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The short-term use of some herbal alternatives or sleep medications may be necessary to ensure you get the sleep you need. Sleep deprivation will only compound your suffering. 

Keeping up or starting an exercise routine can also make you feel better both physically and psychologically. Remember, exercise causes the release of 
endorphins, which can make you feel better.

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7. Get Back Into A Routine

Since going through a break-up can create a sense of chaos in many areas of your life, continuing on with your routines will give you a better sense of stability or normalcy. 

Although taking some expectations off yourself temporarily can help, returning to 
routines shortly after the initial blow can help calm you down and give you a returning sense of control. 

This might include routines around wake-up and bedtimes, meals, school or work related activities, exercise, and time with others to mention a few.

8. Indulge Yourself

If there was ever a time to pamper yourself, it is after a break-up. You need to do something that will actively make yourself feel better. Indulgence can take many forms, depending upon what you really enjoy, but could include: going to a special restaurant, going to a movie with a friend, having a hot bath, trying a massage, going on a short trip, buying something new, taking the weekend off, taking a yoga class or reading your favorite book.


9. Give Yourself Some Slack

Expect that you are not going to be functioning at full capacity for a time due to the distress you are experiencing. 

Therefore, it is not unreasonable to lighten your load for awhile. This might mean allowing yourself a break from studying for awhile, or studying less than you usually would. 

It could also mean withdrawing from a class if you’re really struggling or working a lot less in a part-time job for awhile. Although some of these options may sound drastic, they will give you more time to adequately process your loss. 

It may also mean expecting that your grades will go down a bit and 
not judging yourself for this.

10. Don’t Lose Faith In People Or Relationships

Since you may be feeling very hurt after a break-up, it is easy to assume that all men 
(or women) are bad or untrustworthy, but this just isn’t true. By holding on to this 
belief, you will be denying yourself all kinds of opportunities for a great relationship in the future. We can’t over-generalize from our limited relationship history and assume that it will never work out. Keep shopping! The more people you meet, the greater the chance you will find your best match.
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11. Let Go Of The Hope You Will Get Back Together

Unless there is some very strong evidence that you will reunite with your ex, try to let 
go of this possibility. Bringing closure to the relationship is impossible if you 
continue to hold onto the hope that the relationship will be resurrected. This means don’t wait by the phone for a call, or try to e-mail or text them to try to have a little more connection, or beg to get back together, or make threats to get them back (i.e., 
you will commit suicide). 

These options will only perpetuate your emotional distress in the long term and make you come across as desperate, which will further impact your already shaken self-esteem. Life is too short to wait for someone to come back to 
you after a break-up.

12. Don’t Rely On Your Ex For Support Or Try To Maintain A Friendship

It’s not helpful to depend on your ex after a break-up, especially to help you overcome 
the pain of the break-up. It makes it a lot harder to get over someone if you’re 
continuing to see them or trying to maintain a friendship. After a significant period 


(i.e. months) of no contact, a friendship might be possible, but wait until you’re feeling 
very emotionally strong again.

13. Avoid Unhealthy Coping Strategies

There are several ways of coping with a break-up that are considered quite unhelpful and will likely only compound your problems. These include such choices as drinking excessively, doing drugs, overeating, self-harm, gambling excessively, or becoming a 
workaholic. 

You may be tempted to do whatever you can to avoid feelings of loneliness and pain, but it is essential to find healthier ways to cope.

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14. Make A List Of Your Ex’s Annoying Qualities

If you have been feeling bad because you keep thinking about how much you miss 
your ex or how well suited you were to them, it can be helpful to make a list of all of their less endearing qualities. 

Particularly if you didn’t initiate the break-up, it’s easy to focus on everything about your ex that you will miss, which can only magnify your suffering. 

If you spend some time reflecting, you may come to see incompatibilities in 
the relationship that make it easier to let go and come to see that there is likely a better match out there for you.

15. Avoid The Temptation To Take Revenge

The idea of retaliating against someone who you feel may have hurt you significantly 
is very tempting, but making this choice may have unforeseen consequences.

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